First love

When I speak to Cayen at night before bedtime, I would usually asked him who are his friends in school that he likes to play with etc. And recent trends seemed to be the boys and selected girls who also like Pokemon. 

Hence, last night, it was truly shocking to me when he proclaimed that he's in love with this Girl , she's his girlfriend and he wanted to marry her. He wanted to go to the same Primary school as her. He wanted to bring her on holiday and to Kidzania. 

And for his birthday party, he only wants to invite her - just the two of them (candlelight dinner??) . He also asked Ah Pa to get her phone number so he can keep in touch. 

When he goes home every day, he wants to prepare a surprise for her, just to make her laugh. (So sweet!)

He said he made her laugh every day (so sweet!) 
I asked Cayen how he did it. He said he will splash water at her and call her funny names. (Boy, that's not the way to impress a girl.. better come up with a better strategy!) 

But perhaps it had worked. 

Ah Pa had bumped into the Girl today and she told him that " Cayen is nice and funny " so I guessed it's not entirely one sided. 

Cayen asked Ah Pa to help him bring some fruits and chocolate 🍫 to school tomorrow as he wants to give to the Girl  and tells her that he loves her. 

And next time he can play the piano and she can dance . (Where he gets these ideas from??)

Just to be sure, I asked him again if he know what is "'marry". He said , "Girl and boy can marry. I'm a boy, she's a girl, we can marry."

Oh mine, he's only 4 years old, going to 5 but it already feels like Teenage drama . 






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