Talking about our day
To encourage Cayen's ability to talk about his experiences and feelings , usually I will ask him about his day and also share my day with him. This is done over dinner or during bedtime. I think this is important , because I hope he will always feel comfortable enough to share his joy and also his issues/problems with us even after he grows up into a teenager. As a side benefit, his storytelling skills should improve too since he has to recall his day and share the highlights and lowlights as well.
Usually, I will ask him things like: how's your day; what are the happy stuff; what are the sad stuff; who did you play with ; who are your best friends now.
There was one particular day which was rather funny:
C: How's your day Ah Ma?
Me: Long day , hence I'm eating dinner so late.
C: Why?
Me : Some people pushed their work to me so I have to work late.
C: They push you ?
Me: No. What I mean is that the work was supposed to be done by them but they didn't do it so they passed to me. So I cannot come back early.
C: Ok, then you quickly escaped, just jump into a taxi and come home.
Me: Sounds like a plan .. haha.
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